Guidebook

Simple rules from movie:

1. you want to lose weight- stop eating, fatty

2. you want to make money- work your ass off, lazy

3.you want to be happy- find someone you like and never let him go

Good luck with that!

Elements

Earth Water Fire Air

Each one is totally different.

Each has its own power which can do something extra good or extra bad. Each can help, provide, destroy, make your breathing stop of beauty it makes, jump around like a kid, cry like a river and so on.

You can’t live without one of them but sometimes life is hard and you can’t get one.

But the best is if you have the royal combination- all four of them!

And with people it is the same. Some are fire, some water. Some air, some earth. Fire loves air, cause it makes it bigger, happier. But fire doesn’t like water very much, cause it makes fire down. But fire (like sun) can look very special on water when it is evening. Air likes water, cause it can make waves. But probably air doesn’t like earth much, cause underground there is nothing to breathe or go. You are stuck. But as I said- you can’t live without even one of them. You can try, but you won’t be complete. Sometimes you need to be stoped by one. Another day- lifted up by other.

If you know who you are..than be as good you can be. Use your power for good. And remember-there is no impossibilities!

Up

Music is definitely one of those things that picks you up! Makes you feel like not alone! And makes your mind go around different thoughts!

One song I got from friend is great “Send Me On My Way”. And in combination with ”This is your life”- it picks me up. I don’t deserve it, but still want to share this with you my million visitors : )

This is the song

This is your life

 

Space

Probably nice place to be

 

At least makes good feelings to feel

 

Sometimes is working against us

 

 

Some makes everything around 360

 

 

 

 

 

Together

Another lesson learned. Don’t like them at the first moment at all. But at the end I am thankful that I got one. Feeling like a dummy. Do I really know anything about life or how could I don’t know such a simple thing and act like normally people at age 27 do? But from other point of view, would it be so interesting to be my friend if I were so perfect.. (who knows)

Well, the lesson was about offering. Offering things and activities to be done together.

When you have lived like in a box, doing things you want and when you want, makes situation a bit harder, if you have decided to leave the box. And live life tastefully, colorfully, sense-fully.

How do people know what to do? Does it come from feelings? Or is it just a bigger experience from life? Is it possible to be “life smart” if you are mostly on your own? How to get over the feeling, if you have a sense to do things one way, but inside you know it’s the same way you’ve been doing things all your life?

It is not bad to do things on your own. Especially if you live on your own. It’s not so bad to do them alone even when you are with someone. It’s bad when it makes someone feel not welcomed, unwanted, not worth to do things together.

At the end it points out to thing which will be inside for all the times. Selfishness, egoism, ego, self- interest. If it is clear now. Then how to fight it? It’s probably not so bad to do things not alone. Two heads are smarter. Shared sadness or happiness is double smaller or bigger. It’s more fun. You can have someone who takes pictures of you doing something for the first time. Easier to carry heavy things.

Problem is to let someone in, and yourself out. To wait for other to be able to do things together.

Too many things to think about when you are not alone. Too many to remember not doing wrong again. Or just not to think about how to do right, but to do how heart says?

There are rules for living with others, that’s for sure. Just need to be patient and strong through learning and becoming a better person. Not being alone is hard but worth it.

Alive

What makes me truly alive

Moments when I’m not insensible

That I have dreams

When I fight and get at least some success

Water!

Time with my beloved ones

Great meal

Very important people

Smile

What is so special about smile?

From day of birth everyone knows how to do that

It shows how many teeth you actually have

You are able to do that without any special reason

Even Mona Lisa did that

And our famous ice hockey player does it too : )

It looks good on everyone

It takes a little time, but can stay in memories forever

Even peace starts with a smile

Also it doesn’t cost any money

And You’re more beautiful when you smile

So You can have, share, wear, give and take it anytime you want and as much as you want

Self

People say- you are born as original, don’t die like a sham;  you live just once, live like you want it; you are unique, do not try to be like others.

For some people it is easy to know what they exactly want. For some..not so. Question- why that’s so? Why it is so damn hard to be who you are? And to know who you want to be?

It’s good to be born special. Cause then you have different problems to solve! (stupid thought, I know)

Well, this weeks special- be special, unique, original- yourself. And find the ways to be like that- on your own!

Motivation

There is no need for motivation if you don’t need or you not want anything. But in life- such a situation – is one in a million.  Even if it’s better for you not to want anything.

The complex of things like needs, motives, aims and interests will make our behavior and will show the direction and intensity in which we are moving. But sometimes it gets to the point when we need a bigger amount of self motivation for things we are going after.

People say that motivation doesn’t stay for a long time. But we need to practice in it every day, just like for taking a shower. I would say- we need things big and worth enough to wait for them, to fight for them, and never give up, never quit and never stop wondering about them.

At this point in my life, I’m stuck.. and searching for self motivation. And here is one good thought I found which helps. At least for a while and gives a different view.

“It is good to be pleased with things you belong, but never be pleased with what you are.”J. Mackintosh

So.. if I do know what I want, I have set a goal, I’m taking some kind of action, but I still haven’t accomplished the aim, I need to be thankful for the time I have for myself and self development.  Waiting is definitely hard. But I know that I can’t quit so easily. It’s just a beginning.

Learn

Learn how to use Skype. Learn to use microwave.  Learn to read, to speak etc. It’s all for good, definitely, no doubt.

Is it possible to learn to let people go? Or is it just time who makes everything in balance again?

It is hard- that’s for sure. And when you let someone go, there is a place for someone new. But does anyone asks if I want that? Why isn’t it possible to get all the good stuff without leaving any behind?

Well, I would say there are two ways in my mind at this moment. One is to fight for the wanted and find new ways to work it out and solve the problem. Do whatever it takes to keep on going with the best ( as one good friend say’s- That’s the spirit).  Or just let time to do what it does, to get used to the situation and just remember the things they were used to be.

So basically it’s not about learning to let someone go. It’s about choosing how you will live your life further, how you will deal with the new situation- sad and  frustrated about all, or trying to find the ways for working things out on a whole new level!